“21-Year-old quarantine”

21-Year-old quarantine.

Life in the most part seems easy, so with it we can lead the way we want.

When in special circumstances we are hit by a great disaster, when we become a victim of violence or in any way our social life is lost, then the incredible breaking of our existence not only psychic, but also that physical.

Our faith in our capacity to solve important life events takes serious hits.

The processing of a hurt, whether by natural disasters, disasters, human violence caused by human or any disease that puts life at risk; each one brings a difficult exam in life.

Such an exam met 20.000 women of Kosovo.

It’s been 20 years since we’ve been quarantined.

We did not want this, but you gave us.

We have been forced to live in these conditions.

We have been practicing social communication as long as we are stigmatised.

All these years you force us to silence, not to show, leaving us abandoned from your world.

It’s been a long time since you put us in our heads because we’re “dirty”.

We have learned to put gloves on, so that we do not burn even more; and this constant protection and care has cost us by bringing us into isolation.

It has been a long time since you put us in masks with kind of colors, in order to not be determined, in order not to be revealed, in order not to be revealed, not to tear our tears even when we were missing, the less the smile even when we missed you Laugh.

You wanted us not to prove that we are alive by deny our existence.

This 20-Year-old was as terrible as the event that happened to us.

The consequences are still present in our mental and physical health.

Those consequences are also present in our families.

But…

In the middle of all this we had the strength to live. The fact that we remain alive shows our strength.

With a lot of pain we continued life.

For wonder in the middle of this pain we even grew up.

It seems paradoxical and the question is: why does one have to experience the injury to grow?

Do we have to experience not good events to understand the pain of others?

That’s why we need to know that:

Trauma is not necessary for growth;

In no way should we assume that the trauma is “good”;

People can develop and ripen in a meaningful way without experiencing tragedy or trauma;

We like all the others consider life crisis and seizures as undesirable and want no one ever to try traumatic life experiences;

We live with our pain and at the same time with our face-to-face that life has taught us.

At this time quarantine for all humanity we want you to reflect, understand us and enter our skin by becoming active persons in our cause.

It has taken many many years just to talk about us, to accept in the shadow our existence by cheer:

” respect for you “, ” our heroines “…

Now it’s time for you to act more because from doing it to do you share a mountain.

Be part of the breaking of our quarantine, seek justice for us!

Join you too!

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